Dating thick black women
And if fat women do happen to have standards, if they somehow manage to attain a decent amount of self esteem and self worth, they are oft accosted and blamed for bringing death in the form of diabetes, heart disease and more to the doors of their communities- a la Alice Randall in her latest New York Times Op-Ed about Black women and fatness.
After all, our health issues are not a result of poor health education and food deserts, but instead that we are way too happy being fat.
This happened in real time when I clicked on blogger "Crunktastic’s" piece called “Big Girls Need Love, Too: Dating While Fat (and Feminist)”.
History has shown us that time and time again, the hourglass figure is the most sought-after trait in a prospective sexual partner.One dating expert said “If you are a black woman on and you’re not going to initiate contact then you are not going to date.That’s just the reality.”To get any response at all, black women have to reach out roughly 1.5 times the amount of any other group — and they are still the group that’s the least responded to.But fat women want to date men who are on their levels intellectually and otherwise, and who have made similar strides to them (as far as education and the like).What Erika alludes to is that not only will many men who are upwardly mobile not attach themselves to fat women, but that fatness can be a determining factor in whether fat women advance in the workplace, and socially as well.
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That could mean a lot more dating opportunities for black women on mainstream sites.